Hello beautiful humans. I hope your heart and mind are in a positive space. I’m listening to Wild Irish Roses by Smino while I gather my thoughts. As most of you know, I’m finishing up my Masters degree. I’ve been in an extremely dark place these last few days fighting through my depression and had… Continue reading This little light of mine
Him: “I should’ve never cheated.” Her: “First of all, we were never together.” Hey y’all, I’m 30,000 feet in the air writing to you this evening. I’m listening to Craving by Matt Woods while I gather my thoughts. I’m trying to be as unbiased as possible as I write this post. But men ain’t shit.… Continue reading Cheating is a choice, not a mistake
I bet that title got your attention. This post is geared toward understanding the eminence of self-importance. I’m listening to Journey by Tom Misch while I gather my thoughts. I’ve recently been on a “new year new me” hype, even though the year is damn near over. I’ve stepped out of my comfort zone on… Continue reading The New Pxssy
Hello Kings and Queens! This post is a continuation of Buy Your Own Damn Flowers; a segment about taking the initiative and creating your own happiness. I’m listening to 6am by Moonchild while I gather my thoughts. I received a lot of feedback from Buy Your Own Damn Flowers, both positive and negative. Some of you had… Continue reading I bought my own flowers, now what?
MAJOR KEY!!!! *DJ Khaled voice Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you a few tips on how to grow your hair long and strong. I did the big chop (cut off 9 inches) earlier this year. My hair was very healthy at the time, curls were flourishing, baby hairs were poppin, but I was going… Continue reading Major keys to fast hair growth
"Your spirit has to be strong enough to say no thank you." I wish my heart wasn't so heavy as I write to you this evening. I'm listening to Beauty in the Dark by Mos Def and The Isley Brothers while I gather my thoughts. Picture it, Houston, September 23, 2017. My mother flew to… Continue reading Does my blackness make you uncomfortable?
Sex positivity is "an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, encouraging sexual pleasure and experimentation". Happy Tuesday y'all! This post is a little outside of my comfort zone but I hope it reaches a few of you. I'm currently listening to Sugar by SiR while I gather my thoughts. I am… Continue reading Establishing a hoetation and maintaining a sex positive lifestyle
Big breath in, let it out, and repeat three times. Hey y'all, it's been awhile. I'm listening to Hold Me Down by Daniel Caesar while I gather my thoughts. How are you guys feeling? Your heart? Your mind? Your spirit? Your body? Answer these questions aloud. If one part is off, it effects the rest… Continue reading Surrounded
"I need your advice" has been the start of multiple conversations this past week. I'm listening to Navajo by Masego while I gather my thoughts. Who enjoys being needed by others? The need for your advice because your friends trust your honesty, or maybe you have a certain skill set and they need your expertise… Continue reading The need for need
"Hiking is a bit like life: The journey only requires you to put one foot in front of the other ...again and again and again. And if you allow yourself opportunity to be present throughout the entirety of the trek, you will witness beauty every step of the way, not just at the summit." Although… Continue reading Best hikes in Northern California